Too Tired Being a Yes Woman

Yeah, when u read that title, maybe u just know what I mean......I'm so tired being a yes woman, can't refuse anyone request, to afraid refuse just don't wanna someone getting hurt....

But at the same time I really really tired being used, even my friend, I always help them to do stupid things that they can do by theirself, but they too lazy to do that thing....At this time my level of tiredness in a low level. I'm sick of that, really really hate this stuff, and I want learn being selfish for this time.... I learn how to refuse they request to help this to help that, seems like I'm their assistant, really hate it...This situation repeat again and again and again.....Don't know why they don't do by theirself...Why me? why why?

And really don't like when someone have to ask me to do this or to do that, this is my self, and I own myself, even my parents never ask me to do this as a must.....why have to someone else have to ask me? I do what I like and I love, nobody can forbid me to do what I like... I like being free, not under other's control...

SOunds like selfish, but I have to learn this because lately, lot of people make me angry, I'm passion enough with them, but none of them really apreciate me as a human being, really hate it.....

Now I don't care what people thinking about me, or whatever, like someone said " life is a once, u can choose what life do u want" He makes a point, and I agree with him....I don't give a damn about someone's life, and other people too, they don't have to give a damn about my life, about what I wanna do, Just do ur bussiness dude!!!!....

I'm not ask u for money, for something else, so, why I have to listen to you??? I'm a grow up woman, so don't u think that I can take care of my self without ur any advice or suggestion?? Just leave me alone, and stop asking.....